St. Patrick’s Day.

I woke up at 4:30 am this morning so I could hit the gym before a busy day.  I needed to make room for some fun later!  In my adulthood St Patrick’s Day has been filled with the traditions we save solely for the day of the Irish.  Oh “black and tans” and “car bombs”, how I’ve dreamt of you since last March.  Yes, with Irish blood, I love just about anything that contains Guinness.  Of course after having a baby, one can’t indulge in so many liquid calories without some Irish guilt.  Sane?  No.  Irish?  Yes.

This year, to reward my efforts, I’m really looking forward to these Sweet Indulgence Guinness cupcakes after lunch, and a nice cold pint of the real thing after dinner!

What makes St. Patrick’s Day so special?  What I really love, besides rocking my green sweater, is the memories of my childhood.  In elementary school, while all of my classmates were taking ballet and jazz class, I was dutifully holding a ruler behind my back learning to Irish Step Dance.  In elementary school, one doesn’t necessarily like being different.  I, for one, just wanted to fit in.  But when St. Patrick’s day rolled around each year, everything changed.  My parents would take me out of school and we would travel with my dance troupe hitting every local Irish Pub along our travels.  It was something special.  Something my two brothers didn’t get to do.  Something the rest of my class didn’t get to do.  Somewhere I could shine.

We started the morning at Warwick City Hall, dancing on the steps for the mayor.  Then Warwick Mall.  The State House.  The Harp and Shamrock.  The Shannon View.  The Wind Jammer at Rocky Point.  But the very best part was finishing the day at Twin Oaks. My grandparents were regulars in the Oak Room (the back bar as we called it).  We would meet them for a late lunch, they would prop me up where everyone could see, and I would dance for the room as all of their friends passed a cup around!  If you’ve met me before, you know I’m currently about the size of a 12 year old.  Approaching 30, I still get carded.  I’ve been that way my whole life.  When I was 6, I looked 3.  (Just by looking at the photo above, you can see my dance shoes were smaller than a 4×6″ note card!)  I had strawberry hair, freckles, the whole Irish bit.  Everyone gushed.  “Who is that red-headed toddler dancing so well???”  Of course I was 6, but they didn’t have to know.  Those early days of Irish Step dancing pretty much paid for my first car!

My grandfather once said to me “I don’t get it.  When I was a kid, nobody wanted to stick out.  We all wore the same thing, parted our hair the same way.  No one wanted to be different.  Your generation, everyone wants to be unique!”  But, deep down doesn’t everyone want to shine?

Well, St. Patrick’s Day is that day for the Irish.  A day to shine.  A day to celebrate.  A day to remember your smiles and forget your troubles.  And for anyone who isn’t Irish, go throw on some green and join us in the party!

“May the sound of happy music, And the lilt of Irish laughter, fill your heart with gladness, that stays forever after.” – Irish Toast

Head into Twin Oaks today for some corned beef and cabbage and one of these delicious Sweet Indulgence cupcakes.  Unfortunately I won’t be dancing in the back bar, but perhaps you’ll see some other Irish Step Dancer in your travels, enjoying her day to shine!

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  • Heidi,
    You are a great writer! I loved reading this (and the photos are GREAT!).
    I grew up in an Irish city (Holyoke) where everyone made a huge deal about St. Patrick’s Day. I used to feel kind of left out as my family attended the annual parade but that’s about it. We didn’t have Irish sweaters or eat corn beef and cabbage like the rest of my friends. I never dreamed about becoming the Colleen of our city as I never felt Irish enough.
    However, you reminded me that I have fond memories of being in school on St. Patrick’s Day. We used to walk to the nursing home next to the school and sing Irish songs to the elderly. I completely forgot about that until I read your post and thought about my memories.
    Thanks for sharing!
    Carrie Wattu
    baystateparent

  • Thank you Carrie! So many great memories of this day, it is fun to look back!

  • What a great *feel good* posting Heidi. Thank you for sharing and may today be a great day for you!

  • Debbie Lancia

    gotta love those early years and the Irish step days….we hold them dear to our heart!!! Love the newsletters and all the great pics. Happy St. Pat’s Day to you…

  • Colleen (Donnelly) Brown

    Riley and Norah (my daughters) are dancing all over the place for the St. Patricks day season. Each year I see the confidence and love of performing and it makes me smile. Each Feis I get to have the same feeling all year round. I even made my office mates listen to feis music today.

    Love the Pics and the blog

    Colleen (Donnelly) Brown

  • Colleen (Donnelly) Brown

    My daughters are dancing all over the place this St. Patricks day “season” . It brings me joy to see them build confidence and skill paired with the joy of performing and the response they get from the audience. I get a piece of St. patricks day every feis and performance they do all thru the year. I even made my office mates listen to Irish Step music this morn.

    love the pics and the blog. you do amazing work

    Colleen (Donnelly) Brown
    Mother of Riley, Norah and Seamus!